A Spirited Lunch

Well its always good to get away from what is the 'norm' in life and to enjoy a different setting.  I was over visiting my sister in the lovely part of southern Italy where she lives and where i truly feel at ease too when I am there. 

The first day that I fully had there this time, I went off and visited my two favourite coastal towns of Tropea and Pizzo that for me are warm and inviting even on a winter's day. On the beach in Tropea there is a small cave that the water just laps into gently and reflect the light around it. I've already been there twice before, but this third time the tide was in, but as it was 18C mild day summery day for any Irish person I did my own little bit of sun worship. The crazy little thing was that I was the only one on the beach for most of my hour there.  I must of looked like a mad man , with my towel laid out and just shorts on to the Italian family that eventually walked on the beach in duffer jackets and hats. Once this would of bothered me now it doesn't. 

As I lay there I spoke with Spirit and they gave me advice to take on board for this coming year and part of that is to go back to that wonderful beach more often in the future and just sit as i did for that hour listening to the gentle waves roll up onto the white sands. 

After this blissful afternoon my travel took me to Pizzo a couple of small towns up the coast and somewhere that I would consider buying a holiday home, but lets face it Tropea or here would suit me fine for that. 

I rambled along the walk to the town, finding my way up the twists and turns of the steep steps that lead the way to the main square of Pizzo. Eventually I had a nice meal  of pizza and local white wine too, you must when in Italy. 

This was a great relaxing day which after a quick dash back to meet up with my sister we headed to see the rest of my Italian family. 

Lunch the next day was a very normal affair, lovely people and great food as always. I am only learning to speak Italian so I gladly listen in and my sister translates for me what i can't say. Just as we were over our meal, I felt Spirit draw close and what was a passing moment to begin with ended up being nearly two hours of Spirit communication with a couple in Spirit I have met before and several more that I haven't . 

One spirit communicator joked that we were not expecting to be having lunch with the dead. The words from the spirit members rolled very clearly into my mind and even included a few Italian words that were understood when I said them, the rest my sister translated. Memories were shared and very particular photos described, which after they were mentioned I was shown them too. 

I was being pushed out of my comfort zone to  point that made it a new comfort zone of a very natural two worlds conversation. This just showed me the importance of training and development and being committed to Spirit. We can as mediums be the voice for those that have walked ahead of us and let them still be a part of everyday life here to bring healing and joy to those close to them. All we as mediums are is their phone line, operator and speaker phone,  their power dials the call and their thoughts are the conversation.


Pizzo, Calabria, Italy

Joys of Life

Do not weep for me,

Do not be sad,

Remember the fun and joys that we had.


The amazing nights out

And crazy situations.

To the cosy nights in

And loving contemplations.


Life is for exploring

And adjusting to the changes.

As we walk to the sea of never ending mazes.

Finding our pathways and finding ourselves

Learning to be able to know oneself.


So keep the party going

Dancing to the tunes of life.

And you will discover the rhythm that is right.

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Eternal Progress Open to Every Human Soul

This principle has many layers within in that we can look at. It talks to us about our eternal aspect of life that if you look at it in one way we are not mortal beings but in truth we are immortal as we don't just simply die when we take our last breath on the physical earth,  we are transformed into our true self the self of the spirit within.


This is the  part of us that can never die for we all are a spark of divine light from the light of the creator our Father God. This light of the divine is impossible to extinguish and shines brightly within us all.


When we embrace this light within ourselves we can begin to recognise it in others too, for we have experienced the power within it and we can very naturally gravitate to others that also share the interest in exploring this aspect of self. We are in truth beginning to experience and explore the soul self.


The soul self is a mysterious part of you with untold layers of self discovery and self realisation.  


We know of the physical mental emotional and spiritual aspect of our beings but even within these there are layers to discover.  


Most of us would have experienced times when we had to dig deep in times of need and find strength within us that before those events we never knew existed.


Seeing that your mental willpower and determination can increase to get you motivated and focused is way to see that you are progressing in mental strength. I for one found it difficult to go the gym to finish a particular workout to begin with but with time and seeing changes in myself I began to not listen to the part of me that always wanted to give up, just grab a burger and just enjoy that instead which was much easier.  Honestly yes you are testing yourself and pushing your boundaries of how much to can change and commit to it to see further changes but that in the end is a great challenge that in my experience and opinion makes you evolve a better mental motivated self.


It is all about your wellbeing and this attributes then to progression of the emotional self. Allow yourself the opportunity to free your mind and truly feel the emotional aspect of your soul self. An aspect that is free from criticism,  and stress,  for it is an aspect of the soul consciousness that is filled with love. If we give time to pause, take the back seat to the journey in life we can give time to reflect and see things more clearly,  understanding the triggers to your emotions and slowly over time working with them establishing a healthy way of being and bringing in new perspective freeing the mind and emotional self to the greater aspect that all is possible and just needs that little perseverance to let it prevail.  


Over time when we explore these areas we being to explore once more and question the nature of life and our soul self. We can in turn become seekers of truth trying to understand meaning of our life to a degree but even with a very long life I'd say we only touch the tip of the iceberg to what that may be.


I asked Spirit about this and the reply is the all life is a school room and as the years pass you gradually evolve in thought and understanding and that when the bell tolls at your funeral you've reached the graduation of life's school into another way of learning and evolving.


We step out of our physical self and awaken into the reality of life eternal. We then begin to develop the understanding of our next stage of evolution with a greater awareness of self in a new way and in doing so we once more have progressed.


This progress is what our forth principle,  the continuatious existence of the human soul, is all about showing that we do live on. Our relationship with those that have made the great transition of life doesn't remove them completely from our life's as we can see through the demonstration of mediumship they are still involved in our lives and aware of what is happening since they passed their communication way has just simply changed.


This brings me to a very small simply put poem called Epilogue by Grace Nichols

I have crossed an ocean
I have lost my tongue
from the root of the old one
a new one has sprung


For me this poem has three elements in it.  when it  speaks of the ocean it speaks of the journey of our passing to the next chapter of life.


The aspect of losing my tongue is my voice in the world from the way I would always have known it to be. A voice that could be heard understood and covey my thoughts to others. This transition changes that but the root of my method of communication is still the same my consciousness.  


The final aspect of the new tongue is the progression of our ways to communicate with the mediums here through our soul self we learn to bring awareness and the language of the soul through the medium to let our loved ones know that we are still alive well and part of their journey.  Once more we demonstrate our belief of eternal  progression   


This communication gives strength again to our mental and emotional self, empowering us to live life and explore it questioning and seeking answers.


Life is full of mystery and intrigue it's there to be discovered.  You can over time see the power within your soul self and manifest what you really need. Through thought,  belief and conviction anything is possible,  for possibilities are endless once your set your heart and mind on it.


You have the same power in you know as you world when you reach the world of spirit,  so let yourself discover it and see that as our Father God created you in his image with the same power within you as him, you too are a creator so let yourself create.  


In doing this you see your soul power change and strengthen and you can feel more empowered and fulfilled.  


Take a few moments maybe every so often. Stop and rest,  see your progression and just how much you have evolved your ways of thinking and acting upon situations.

Know deep within you are eternally progressing every day mentally, emotionally and spiritually and whatever you do it know that you have made a great step forward.

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